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You can't control others... but you can influence *indirectly*
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Hi! I've been getting feedback on what people would like to see me cover in the class this upcoming Wednesday, May 15th, about saying what you mean and being well-liked! One of the themes I'm seeing is with regard to the "other." Like how do I make the other see/do/etc.... ? So... People have free will. You can't directly change anyone's internal reality, but you can enter through a side door. For example, last night, one of my clients was talking to me about showing in her writing that the "pioneer spirit" was actually about working together and not individualism. What she didn't notice (and what I pointed out) was that this ethos she's going to be sharing with the world is directly oppositional to the views of a political candidate she very much dislikes. She isn't specifically talking about that political candidate. She didn't even think of that candidate when thinking of this that she wanted to share. Rather she is BEing the light by sharing a communitarian view that feels good, that empowers, that unites rather than divides. By just being HER, she's accomplishing an intention without directly mentioning it. Just... by BEing. A common way people approach wanting to make someone else see our perspective is by going directly in, head-first, "I AM A'COMIN'" Doesn't work. They're gonna reject you. What we can do instead, rather, is align our being with our intentions and let "it" do it itself. I will teach strategy for this in MY CLASS upcoming on this week! Please do grab your ticket before time runs out. You can click this below - then it's simple. Hit "buy a ticket," grab your wallet, enter your credit card info, and bam! You'll have a Zoom link sent to you immediately.
Can't wait to see you there! Let's rock and roll. Stay beautiful Andee |
Andee Scarantino at Get the F*ck Off
I'm a Mindset and Transformational coach on a mission to make personal development digestible. I'm the creator of getthefuckoff.com - lotus information for non-lotus people. Spiritual life coach whose website is routinely flagged as porn 🤷🏻♀️🤣🧘🏻♀️ Whoops
Hey, my friend Right now, someone is avoiding having a hard conversation with me. We had a deep spiritual relationship together, and like all relationships, it was/is there for our mutual learning. Any time anything becomes a speck less than pleasant with this individual, he avoids it. So, he'll ignore texts, emails, leave me on read... He'll avoid talking on the phone and when he does talk on the phone, it'll be a bunch of hurried speech, in motion, while driving, etc... No "space" for me to...
Goooood afternoon, my friend. (Or evening, morning, whenever you open) I was thinking today on my walk home from the river about the class I'll be teaching this May 15th about how to say what you mean and still be well-liked. Today, I was thinking about the awkward position one gets put in when someone says something you just. do. not. agree. with. You know, something political, or related to war, religion, or any other topic that you may have strong feelings about. What I hear most from...
Hey! In the last week, I had a similar dialogue with two different people. The first was with a friend I was eating lunch with last Tuesday. We sat outside this cute Mexican restaurant in NoMad, and he told me about his ongoing upset that his family didn’t come here to visit him. The dialogue was as follows: Andee: Did you tell them?Friend: They know.Andee: But did you tell them?Friend: They know. … … The second conversation was with someone about their work schedule. They’re well-liked,...